i had to run upstairs and write about this:

i was watching this show called "dismissed" on mtv. it's a show where one guy and 2 girls (or the other way around) all go on a date together and the 2 of the same sex try to "win" the one they're dating.

so the episode i watched featured the main guy (typical frat guy, parents are rich, drives a nice car, only dates girls who are male servants kinda guy) and there were 2 girls. the first girl was a typical j.a.p. she had a fake tan and her hair all highlighted and her nails done and she was wrapped up in some designer dress that was about 4 sizes too small for her. she tried to "win" the guy by morphing into a little robot and sitting there and listening to his dumb stories about sports and the "stuff" he likes to do. and with everything he said she added some little saying or story to support what he was saying.

the other chick (who i fuckin loved) was just one crazy ass girl. she had long naturally blond hair, a hugggggeeee tattoo covering half of her back and a tongue ring. she didn't dote on him or make like she was very interested. she told him she was a co-dependent and that she was very needy. she told him she was unemployed but for her last job she worked with animal in the circus.

the beginning of the date it was obvious that frat boy was flipped out by the tattooed crazy chick. so he was all about j.a.p. girl. and seeing his inclination, cool crazy girl did not freak out and try to win him over. she just sat there smoking her cigs and calling the other girl a fake.

well wouldn't you know it, he picked the crazy girl! she was honest, she didn't play games and she spread her shit out on the table for everyone to see.

j.a.ppy was very upset and couldn't understand how he picked crazy girl over her... let me break it down for you:

it doesn't matter if the guy is a frat guy, a farmer, a crackhead, a lawyer, a big fat nerd. he is going to pick the crazy girl because she was real, and by being real she showed attributes that expressed who she really is. they were both beautiful and the same body build and all, but what seems to matter EVEN TO FRAT GUYS is that they be with someone original, smart and fun. not pretensious, self-absorbed and under the delusion that men want to be babied. women are liberated and no longer stuffed into corners and made to be something they're not just to please a man.

girls, my message is this: be whoever you are- don't be afraid of it! and even if you doubt that there will ever be someone who could love YOU when there are so many other girls in the world, trust me! if you be yourself you'll have more love interests than you can handle!

2001-10-21, 9:55 p.m.
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