we each have a day that becomes for us the day we had to triumph over. the day where something happened that raped us of our emotional stability and replaced it with a world of unsafety. every day thereafter is a battlefield. mine was in conneticut. i was driving with my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and we were going for ice cream. i asked him if he loved me thinking with no hesitation about the answer. when he refused to answer i told him to pull the car into the mobil gas station on the side of the road. after draining silence and what seemed on his part dramatic soul searching he turned to me and explained that though he cared deeply for me i was not someone he had or could ever fall in love with. it was as if in the moment the words hit the air a part of me died. i threw open the car door and walked in to the mobil mini mart. i felt vengeful, hysterical and mostly angry for allowing myself to love him as much as i did and for believing he loved me back. the past 2 1/2 years felt wasted. i bought a package of bic razors and decided i was going to kill myself in that shit hole mobil gas station bathroom. when i walked over to the door it was occupied. i hesitated. i decided i didn't want to die amongst the smell of someone else's shit and i didn't want to die just because someone else didn't love me. i threw the razors on the floor. i walked back to the car and got in. when my boyfriend asked me where i had been i told him "trying to kill myself" he knew i wasn't kidding and with rage he grabbed the steering wheel and screamed "god laura, you are such a fuckin burden" his words, and everything about him, were so brutually honest and permanent. i couldn't even hate him for it. he drove me home, stayed with me for an hour and then left.
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